Manhood

Another thing about manhood. In my observation, most of the sexual encounters in movies and TV portray the man as the needy one, the horny one, the aggressive one. Though this is changing a little, the man has an implicit expectation that his needs must be met. He is a taker of pleasure.

But mature manhood recognizes that there is pleasure in giving pleasure, often more than in taking pleasure. It’s all a part of listening, and surely a part of manhood.