Tuesday, April 25, 2023

Abortion

 A woman must decide about the future of her pregnancy before she knows she is pregnant. A woman who is raped must carry a child to term. A woman may die to birth the child. A woman who is forced by government to have the child is then abandoned by the government. A woman who decides the child is unwanted because of social, emotional, health or life circumstances becomes a criminal.


This is the weight that falls on many women. While I personally would find it difficult to support an abortion, I can’t make this decision for others. Nor should government. If government can decide this about the life of an unwanted child, it needs to take responsibility for the child until adulthood. But government does not support the poor child or the homeless child or the abused child with the same fervor as it does abortion issues. The sacredness of life issue does not extend to medical care, education and the death penalty.

And what about the father? Is a father who helps with an abortion a criminal of the same kind as a mother? A mother and father, intentionally or not, make the baby. But nature makes the mother the home of the growing child. What does government require of the responsibility of the father until the maturity of the child? What if the father wants the child and the mother does not?

The narrowness and rigidity of these new laws on abortion don’t make sense and in the long run don’t work in the interest of the child, mother or father.

Monday, April 24, 2023

Sunday, April 23, 2023

Religion

 The influence of organized religion has been diminished. Organized religions have become corrupt, political, out of touch with contemporary life, oppositional to one another and even violent. Organized religion has not offered a spiritual practice that is meaningful to young people. Too often their rituals and ceremonies no longer inspire.

Organized religion was, at one time, the source of moral direction, especially for young people. It was for me. Without religious practice, it is hard for people to acquire and question a set of moral values to guide them through life. As a result, the young, particularly, are confused about freedom, personal values, communal responsibility and spirituality.

No community or country can thrive without a set of values which its people live. Where are ours?

Saturday, April 22, 2023

Love one

 If I decide that I want to love everyone, what does that require?

I have to be respectful. I have to be empathetic. I have to be attentive. I have to be humble. I have to expect suffering. I have to put the needs of others above mine.
These are the same things required to love just one person.
So there we are. Love is damned hard work, and there are not enough people willing to do it.

Thursday, April 20, 2023

Sing along

 Sing along with me.

If you’re decent and you know it, clap your hands.
If you’re decent and you know it, clap your hands.
If you’re decent and you know it, and the way you live will show it.
If you’re decent and you know it, clap your hands.

Monday, April 17, 2023

Never needed

 I never needed a celebrity to tell me how to dress.

I never needed a celebrity to tell me how to live.
I never needed a celebrity to tell me what I want or need.
I never needed a celebrity to tell me what love is.
I never needed a celebrity to build my dreams around.
Family, friends, colleagues, mentors, courageous thinkers and life experiences were enough to help me build the life I wanted.
We make celebrities, but genuine leaders and heroes make themselves to guide us in how to make the world.

Sunday, April 16, 2023